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October 31, 2008

SENIORS HAVE A STORY FOR THEIR GRANDCHILDREN

Filed under: Senior Resources — panda picks @ 1:11 pm  Tagged , , , ,
All children need to bond with their Grandparents

All children need to bond with their Grandparents

Everyone knows how important it is to read to our children/grandchildren as they develop pre-reading and reading skills. But story telling is even a richer experience. While struggling to think of ways to quiet my grandchildren for bedtime I hit upon the idea of sharing a personal story from my growing up years.During the story they jumped in with questions as they were fascinated with my adventure. At the end asking to have another or repeat the story you told us last night.

Here are two examples of stories:

Story I

When I was about 5 years old growing up in a little village in northwest Ohio, most of my play must have been imaginary play as we had few toys. On the back of my dad’s car, over the trunk, was a spare tire as was the custom of the time. On a Sunday afternoon, the tire became my ship’s wheel as I imagined sailing over the ocean. Suddenly my dad ran from the house  and jumped into the car. As he backed out of the driveway, I turned my body away from the wheel aka tire locking my arms around the tire behind my back. Being a small town and only a few blocks to travel we did not go any very fast. I felt that I would never be discovered as my plan was to climb into the back seat when we arrived at the ice house.

But who should be walking on the street but my older teen sister and her friend. I saw her pointing and screaming as we past her. Upon our arrival I indeed climbed into the back seat and remained undectected. Lucky, safe was I. When I arrived home I was greeted with hugs and a few sharp words but no spanking.

Story II

My mother loved candy and especially chocolate. Because there were 6 children she had to hide it so that she could have some and then dole it out to us. But sometimes she could n’t remember where she hid it.

I do not remember how old I was but I think it was about the 3-6th grade era in my life when I stayed home in Mom’s bed not feeling any too good while she was at work. Boredom set in and the thought of candy being hid somewhere that she might have neglected  to find,sent me on a search.

In the dresser drawer I found a small box with a sliding lid and yes, foil covered chocolate. I had hit the big time and proceed to eat it all. Now when Mom came home I felt a ting of guilt and confessed to her. Her face turned white and she exclaimed “That was exlax”. The next day, I stayed home as I was for sure and for certain, sick!

So why are stories about our own lives important to our children or grandchildren. They connect with us while identifying with our mistakes or adventures. As I pointed out to my granddaughters, grandma made mistakes when she was young and suffered the consequences of her decisions. We talked about the danger that could have ended my life. They can see how we as adults once had the mind of a child, sorting out problems from a childs perspective just as they have to do.

Panda Picks story telling, especially telling personal tales, as a fun and productive activity to do with our grandchildren.

October 30, 2008

DANGERS OF ON-LINE COMMUNITIES

When conducting a business on line, one has to decide where to find their market.  On the internet many can be  found in  social communities. Through the process of chat you learn about each other and share business ideas.  Each  community is unique in scope, tools to use, different interest groups, management and difficulty of use.

There is the potential for great danger alongside of a good place to build your business. Here are some statements to assist you in realizing that on the internet much can be deceiving. These statements are made from  on line experience and gleaned from some members of communities.

 

1. Communities are international, do not expect people with English as second language to always fully understand. Mis-understandings happen easily as words and sentence structure cause friction.

2. Not everyone is who they present themselves to be. It is easy to create a profile with false information. Watch for contradictions in profile information and actions in the community.

3. Give out your telephone number, and e-mail cautiously.  Skype or message centers are easier to handle   as one deletes so no further communication can take place.

4. Hype and exaggeration are as real in communities as on sites.  Posts may be made of copied and pasted statements of making big money when the truth is, they just joined the program. Do your homework on programmes and promoters. Again watch for inconsistencies.

5. Spammers are real, and you are not asked to accommodate them. The delete button with an explanation will suffice or use the situation to YOUR advantage.

6. Disagreements can be handled by removing ones self from the friends list and or forums. Banning and Blocking are options but may cause retaliation.

7. Feedback options on some communities is for rating a person and their business, not a place to retaliate from some grievance.

8. Forums are for discussion, advertising and gathering information. They are not a place for grievances.

9. Discussion forums are for interaction, you post, I post and we discuss. Be prepared for someone to disagree. Remember much of the world values freedom of speech. Right or wrong respect for another’s opinion will make for good discussion.

10. Forums designated for advertising deserve your kind use. Respect for the invitation is appreciated. Hogging the forum with repeated posting of the same ad is selfishness.

11. Personal mail is open to any legitimate information, either conversation, ads, and invitations (TOS). However, altho not a Term of Service, some people will be furious. You send ads, be prepared for the consequences.

12. Changing the topic in someone forum is not respectful of the forum owner. Start your own forum.

13. Using affiliations to imply trust may cloud your thinking, i.e. religion, organizations, memberships, association with others.  Someone with a big friends list means just that, they gathered many friends.  It does not mean they are wiser.

14. Begging for money. Do your homework. Give generously to those you wish to help. This is not a common worry as most can see if business is so great then they would not be asking. Give to registered charities who can be trusted to deliver the donation not to individuals.

15. Expect respect/disrespect disputes. What is acceptable to one is not acceptable to another. The written word can be mis-interpreted. How many ways do you understand the word “please”.

16. Monitor all forums you post on. The original post can be changed in many communities.  click on the appropriate box to be notified when someone answers your post or a forum you posted in.

17. Monitor your friends list. All the profile information can be changed to something with which you wish not have association.

18.  The word friend means different things to different people.  Some sites use the word contacts.  Protect your business by knowing who you are hanging out with whom you are hanging out. Relationships take time so watch for inconsistencies.

19.  The social community itself may be presenting itself less than accuratly.  For example they may boast of 35,000 members when actually they have had 35,000 people visit and fill out a registration.  Perhaps there are 85 current active people.  Hype from the social community site i also prevalent. They may claim that the will help you sell more, they will do all the work, etc.  Remember the word, WORK? Their promises may be just that, a hyped up promise.  TOS (Terms of Service) may be stated but not enforced.

Join some communities, make your presence but keep your eyes and ears open.  Be a wise participant knowing that somewhere in the community  scoundrels are lurking.

Panda Pics this subject based on personal experience of 3 years using Social Communities. Senior Citizens are easy targets for the garus, on line preditors building huge on line businesses. First we are computer and internet illiterate.  We tend to treat people on the net as we would our friends and family. Hype may not be familar to us as we came from occupations which sheltered us from that very idea. Retirees enter the internet business venture world in large numbers to suplement their retirement income.  Sometimes our desperation shows, so we would believe anything we see and hear.  After all we have no experience and these people must know what they are talking about.  Look how they live, yachts, fancy cars, and mansions.

Identity Theft

October 29, 2008

A Panda Joke

Filed under: Panda Picks Musings — panda picks @ 6:23 am  Tagged , , , ,

A Panda goes out to eat at the neighborhood eatery. He orders his meal and patiently waits.After he completes his delicious meal, he jumps up and pulls out a gun.  He proceeds to tear up the establishment by shooting up the wall fixtures.

As he left, the owner said “What are you doing tearing up my restaurant”.        

“It’s only natural ” replied the panda, “I am a Giant Panda who eats, shoots and leaves” 

                                                                                                                                                 

Panda Picked this joke to make you laugh.  Laughter is good medicine.

Mary Hofstetter AKA The Panda Lady

Mary Hofstetter AKA The Panda Lady

October 28, 2008

Happy Feet For Seniors On The Move

Filed under: Senior Lifestyle — panda picks @ 9:52 am  Tagged , , , , , ,

Happy,  healthy feet are as valuable as a well tuned car getting good mileage.  If you wish to be an active person on the go without the nagging “My feet hurt”, then maybe these ideas will work for you.

>>Wear flip flops instead of going barefoot.  You can avoid ringworm, warts, athlete’s foot, and other icky stuff.

>>Turn on the lights or have a flashlight handy when you get up in the middle of the night.  Who needs a broken toe when you have great plans for tomorrow.

>>Summer routine should include sunscreen.  ouchie feet and ankles might slow you down.

>>Drink plenty of water.  Coffee and tea don’t count.  We need to keep hydrated to keep swelling down.

>>Flex your ankles, wiggle your toes, stretch calves to enhance blood flow

>>Remember that nail polish might cause fungus.  Yellow toenails or the absence of toenails is not cool

>>Dry out wet sneakers and don’t wear the same shoes everyday.

>>Wear shoes according to activity. Personally I need ankle support for long  walks.

>>Spray anti-perspirant on your feet if they’re often sweaty.

For ankle stiffness do a daily exercise while you are being a couch potato.  Take your big toe and write all the letters of the alphabet. Repeat with the other foot.  Now get up and go for a nice long walk and put on some miles.

Panda picked happy healthy feet to keep you comfortable and healthy and recomends you visit Foot Care Direct for assistance with feet problems.

Detox Pads Discussion

October 27, 2008

F.A.S.T. Stroke Intervention

Just as we teach children how to call for help using 9-1-1, we should share information with them about health issues.  After all our grandchildren are many times in our company and well know our habits.  Sharing these four letters, F A S T may save your life or at least bring help quickly.

F = Face- One side of the face droops or looks uneven.  When asked to smile the person is unable to do so.

A= Arm- Does one arm drift down?  When asked to raise arms one arm will not lift.

S= Speech- Does their speech sound strange?  Ask them to repeat a phrase

T= Time-Call 9-1-1 immediately at any sign of a stroke.  Use ambulance for quick transport

Another way to remember stroke symptoms is to remember this key word:-Sudden-

Sudden weakness, Sudden confusion, sudden trouble speaking or understanding, suden seeing difficulty in one eye, walking or sudden loss of balance and severe headache.

Do not assume these symptoms to be seen only in the elderly.  I know an 18 month old baby and a 32 year old woman who experienced these symptoms.

This information is available from your local health department.

Panda picked this subject because many grandparents are raising grandchildren.  As we are a healthy generation we travel with our grandchildren and spend much time with them.

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